when it's your JOB to help people and to get their stuff done for them, but these people don't tell you what the hell is going on.
so when said people are on vacation and you try to take care of things on your own and you find out that they've done something IDIOTIC AND they didn't tell you about it or why they were doing it, you sound like even MORE of an idiot to the people who are telling you what said people did.
you pay me to help you. TELL ME WHAT THE FUCK YOU ARE DOING. maybe i can help you do it better.